What does it FEEL like to truly inhabit our femininity 🌹🐆

Not performative femininity — 

but rather, that deeply surrendered

emotionally intelligent 

spacious AF

wildly fluid energy .... 

That receptive, adaptable BE-ing state 

that is a natural part of every single human on earth 

[to one degree or another] 

regardless of your biological s£x or gender !

LISTEN

I grew up on the east side of Buffalo (New York) and I’ve lived allllllllllllll over the world …

I know ALL ABOUT survival mode 🤺

I learned firsthand why women in Mexico City will only ride the very first subway car ...

to avoid being assaulted

[I opted for uber when I lived there and — having lived in NYC at a young age — as well as San Francisco and Oakland for many years … it’s hella rare for me to feel uncomfortable on public transportation]

Girls and young women in SE Asia

(and your own city … guaranteed )

are being trafficked even as I write this blog post ...

Endemic violence against women STAYS on the rise in the Middle East ...

And internalized misogyny is a major theme in many communities across 🇺🇸

I see / hear it all the time ... 

women turning on other women 😳

I’m not saying it’s safe to be a woman —

because it isn’t .

But having been around the BLOCK  🌏

I’ve learned to cultivate a state of embodiment 

that centers my deeply feminine essence 

💰 irrespective of external conditions 💰

OF COURSE —

I feel safer / more revered / adored / invisible / disrespected / unsafe in certain spaces

and communities more than others ... 💯 FACTS

But I will no longer suppress or apologize or censor aspects of myself

for fear of being attacked by men or judged by other women .…

I’m here to CELEBRATE the body 💥 sensuality 💥 power 💥 creativity 💥 and vitality 💥 I was born and blessed with …

How bout you, boo ❓🤔

There are times to sit, listen and learn —

humbling ourselves to the wisdom 

of those who’ve walked before us ……

And then there are times 

when only your body knows the next step ❤️‍🔥

Calling all BADDIES

ready to CLAIM the MAJESTY 

of being born in a woman’s body 👑

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We are lonelier than ever and addicted to our own stress hormones …

I know what you're thinking ... 

I'm not an artist

and/or

I just can't relate to your tortured story replete with drugs, illegal raves and a sex addiction 😳

💯 FAIR

but hear me out …

It's true - as a former drug / sex addict in recovery

I am no longer addicted to adrenaline .  Or cortisol .  

But these issues are more universal than you may think ...

and critical to address for optimal health outcomes

[ including but not limited to a sustainable sex drive ❤️‍🔥 ]

as well as access to ENDLESS creativity 💫

and the nervous system capacity to sustain healthy and nourishing relationships !

“For those habituated to high levels of internal stress since early childhood, it is the absence of stress that creates unease, evoking boredom and a sense of meaninglessness .  People may become addicted to their own stress hormones— adrenaline and cortisol "  Gabor Maté , When the Body says NO 

The emphasis here 🇺🇸 on productivity, ambition and damn-near constant activity creates a glorification of stress and a [toxic] masculine paradigm of "busyness"  ...

which, in turn, results in an entire population with chronically elevated cortisol levels

Burnout, depression, chronic fatigue, impaired immunity, hormonal imbalance, sexual dysfunction and a slew of autoimmune disorders will inevitably follow ….

it's just science, y'all . 

And sadly, I can verify all of these empirical data experientially,

as I've already navigated [ and healed ] everything on that list .

Nearly 20 years ago,

I was forced to change my lifestyle . 


My body left me no choice ...

that's how very WISE our bodies are .


When we allow our nervous systems to ADAPT to a constant state of fight or flight, we become accustomed and habituated to elevated cortisol .  Even addicted to it … 

This adaptation mimics substance abuse in the way the body relies on it and seeks out stressful media / situations / jobs / relationships ...

unable to relax and surrender to pleasure .

Western civilization, with its emphasis on materialism and external gratification,

has created a WHOLE ASS CULTURE of denial and distraction 🙄

Rather than confronting deeper issues, we seek "solace" in external stimuli - an endlessly defeating cycle reinforcing chronic stress, loneliness and very poor physical and mental health outcomes . 

 This is one of MANY reasons ...

I created my yearlong immersion program LUST4LYFE

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