LUST4LYFE
erotic soulwork ™️
for the BAD + boujee .
… are you feeling the call to deepen your connection to Eros⚡🐍 as a radical act of SELF LOVE ?! 🌹
| LAUNCHING JAN 2026 |
🔥VIP enrollment OCT 9-NOV 14 , 2025🔥
🗣️ Calling all BADDIES ready to harness ⛓️ the power of the quantum feminine field to turn those DESIRES into REALITY
❤️🔥
Eros is a powerful force that has been suppressed
manipulated
mindlessly consumed,
abused
misinterpreted
reduced to the literal
and feared
for far too long …
It’s time for our relationship
with this life-sustaining, instinctual energy
to E X P A N D
and meet the light of fucking day
… allowing this medicine 🐍
to ripple out far beyond the underworld
igniting every cell in our bodies and every area of our lives
Are you ready to create a new world … together ?!
12-month immersive journey
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January 2026
SEVERANCE
"Your new life will cost you your old one"
Resourcing the nervous system and identifying energy leaks, distractions, addictions and energy diffusion patterns keeping you from manifesting your deepest longings and desires ❤️🔥
[virtual , 2 tribal gatherings]
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February 2026
SEVERANCE
Eros and Psyche
Integrating fragmentation 🧩
Love letters and embodiment practices to transmute all of the BADDIE versions of self that got you through both heaven➕hellscape(s) ☠️⛓️🖤
[virtual, 3 tribal gatherings]
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March 2026
SEVERANCE
Shadow and Dream Work
… to release shame / toxic cultural programming that is not yours to hold !!!
[virtual , 3 tribal gatherings]
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April 2026
THRESHOLD
Worshipping the Goddess
[within and without]
LUXURIATE in Los Angeles 🌹
April 3 — 5 ♡ in person 3-day retreat ♡
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May 2026
THRESHOLD
Trauma, embodiment and artistry
LEAD ROLE ENERGY, BABY 🌟
Release old patterns of nervous system collapse, freeze and performance anxiety using somatic experiencing . Cultivate vitality, embodied confidence and authentic and grounded presence both on and off stage !!!
[virtual, 3 tribal gatherings]
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June 2026
THRESHOLD
Eros as GURU
How THREE DECADES of sexual fluidity and relational exploration enabled me to 👀 and heal the deep wounds, neglect and trauma keeping me “in hiding” [and other played-out survival patterns]
Exploring your stories of love, union and belonging— which aspects need witnessing / release / transmutation / offerering to the alchemical flame of EROTIC TRANSFORMATION ❤️🔥
[virtual , 3 tribal gatherings]
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July 2026
LIMINAL SPACE
Somatics + Self Intimacy
Nervous system safety / coherence is the foundation for deep ✨multidimensional✨ [ i.e, emotional, spiritual, intellectual, creative, physical and sexual ] intimacy . This month, we will use somatic experiencing as a foundation to begin to reclaim, expand and/or deepen into intimacy with ourselves using tantric breathwork and self-pleasure practices .
[ virtual, 3 tribal gatherings ]
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August 2026
LIMINAL SPACE
Your unique energetic blueprint ❗
Your ideal relationship isn't necessarily about the latest trend or played-out fantasy mined from mainstream media . I see and hear from soooooo many bored / lonely / dissatisfied in their current relationship(s) because they’re operating from a set of dogmatic beliefs and behaviors that are not true to their own nature . Merely going through the motions will always feel vapid …
In contrast, understanding your [and your partner(s), if relevant] unique human design [i.e., a synthesis of astrology, the I’Ching and Kabbalah] offers deeply personalized guidance to catalyze growth, deepen connections and encourage mutual support within your most cherished
… and/or future relationships ❤️🔥
[virtual, 2 tribal gatherings]
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September 2026
LIMINAL SPACE
Eros as P O W E R
“We accept the love we think we deserve”
Stephen Chbosky
… journey from codependency and/or relational avoidance to interdependence and deep intimacy
Evolve and ELEVATE your relationships 🌹
[virtual , 3 tribal gatherings]
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October 2026
INTEGRATION
Seducing your D E S I R E S ❤️🔥
Take what we’ve been working on to the next LEVEL @ this IRL retreat where we play with the limits of our deepest longings and desires, supporting one another in embodying that which we have been working on … all within a safe container in one of the most mystical, resilient and EXCITING cities in the country 🎊🦪🍾🥂🖤🎶🎺🥘🎭
[ in-person, 3-day retreat in New Orleans 🎊 ]
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November 2026
INTEGRATION
Attract and sustain authentic relationships 🍯🐝✨
Healthy communication and mutual vulnerability provide a foundation for genuine intimacy . In addition to these practices, we will explore conscious kink as a portal to embodied leadership 🖤🖤🖤
Conscious kink empowers by fostering radical self-acceptance, providing a safe space and skills lab for experimenting with boundaries, consent and healthy communication skills .
By transmuting shame and taboo into intentional [and always optional] play, you will gain confidence that extends far beyond the bedroom!
[ virtual, 3 tribal gatherings ]
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December 2026
INTEGRATION
EROTIC EMPRESS 🐍 crowning ritual
You did it, babe !!!
You will emerge from this sacred portal and final tribal council with ALL of your sisters there to witness, celebrate ➕ honor the DEPTH OF YOUR BEAUTY in a way you didn’t even know you needed
🌹
on fucking FIRE and ready to fully step into your most audacious and generative era yet❗
LETS GIVE EM SOMETHIN’ TO TALK ABOUT 😏
[ virtual , one tribal gathering ]
ABOUT YOUR GUIDE
Nikki Coffelt PhD
artist + erotic empress ⚡🐍
... worked as a licensed psychologist for two decades, running her own private practice as well as working in academic settings including Stanford University Medical Center and the University of California, San Francisco, where she taught yoga and meditation to people struggling with depression .
[ THIS EXPERIENCE IS NOT PSYCHOTHERAPY ]
Trusting in desire as her only compass the first half of life …
she is currently rooted in the dance community in Southern California, integrating decades of devotion and pouring her vast gifts into a passionate and innovative yearlong offering, empowering women and the next generation of deep, embodied leadership to claim their own LUST4LYFE ❤️🔥
Nikki felt the call to shift to a career in the arts in her mid 30's [a born artist — she was not able to pursue these dreams formally until later in life, for a number of reasons] . Shortly after entering recovery for both drug and sex addiction, she began working as a professional painter and abstract expressionist … traveling and living all over the world for a number of years - from Southeast Asia to Mexico City to Australia to Europe to New Zealand …
The pandemic / sudden death of her mother brought her back to the United States in 2020 . She decided to pivot and began investing her energy into erotic dance as an art form five years ago … bringing her life full circle — as decades spent in the underworld, first experimenting with non-ordinary consciousness in counterculture circles and later, studying with shamans until she ultimately pursued a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner certification — began to coalesce .
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She is honored to be a conduit for this work 🙏
“The greatest teacher will send you back to yourself ”
Nayyirah Waheed
Who is this incredible experience for ?
🌹 the woman tired AF of putting her own damn needs and desires last … #smh
🌹 the woman who secretly yearns for more freedom, passion and adventure in her life❗
🌹 the woman in transition [divorce, career or identity shifts, quarter life or midlife “crisis”] seeking a sisterhood to navigate this liminal space
🌹 the woman ready to expand, upLevel + EVOLVE her most cherished relationships❗
🌹 the woman invested in deepening intimacy with herself in order to grow into genuine, embodied confidence and step more fully into her divine purpose … 🦋
🌹 the woman exhausted by “going it alone” all these years … whom is ready to both give and receive fierce, loving support and make BOLD MOVES feel effortless by leveraging the power of the quantum feminine ⚡ field❗
🌹 the woman ready to say ✌ to ALL models of spirituality and self-actualization that exclude her body, desires ➕ erotic energy 🐍
Word on the street
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Word on the street ...
“Deep bows to Nikki, who led us, and the women who were called to the circle along with me. It was a transformative experience and I was reminded of the incredible power of women’s work; especially when we can come together for a higher purpose- even if it’s to do deeply painful shadow work. I had the opportunity to have a life changing experience. Something that had been boiling beneath the surface of my life for almost 30 years was revealed and introduced to me over the course of the group meets. It was exhilarating and scary, of course, but with Nikki’s facilitation and the support of the other women in the group, it was doable. I don’t believe it would have been without the group; it may have taken 5 more years for that work to come through me, but with the group there to hold it with me is what made it possible ... ”
“I’ve worked with Nikki both 1:1 and in a women’s circle that she led . Working with her had a big impact on my life, including helping me make one of the biggest decisions of my young adulthood to move to another country, nurturing and making space for the adventurous, brave, and joyful parts of myself ! Her women’s circle incorporated dancing and painting ... she grounds this work in somatic experiencing ™ making it feel practical and concrete while also deep and transformative .
Nikki is direct, intuitive, nonjudgmental, and models integrity in a way that supports others to develop self-trust . I am deeply grateful for the experience of working with her and can’t recommend her highly enough for the balance of knowledge, support, space for creativity and play — and to develop authentically ... ”
“Dance and open your mind and body ... with Nikki as your guide. Five words: #Support #Women #Village #Gifted #Experience Highly recommend her and her work ... I’m still integrating the gifts ... as an artistic / somatic guide, Nikki deftly took us through [major life] transitions via the power of the tribe! Let [this work] call you . It called me ... and I’m still dancing from it. ”